This is a wonderful, insightful, beautiful link...

You must take the time to read the link I've included in this post. She is a beautiful writer and this one was great.
I love when she says," What we speak to others, is what we speak to ourselves, is what we speak to God."


http://www.aholyexperience.com/2009/12/when-you-cant-figure-out-what-answer.html

Enjoy and May God Bless!